Bestselling author and Certified Daring Way™ Facilitator (based on the research of Brené Brown) Justine Froelker talks how Jesus IS what she likes to call, 'The Permission of the And'. Through Jesus' obedience to the Father on the cross, Jesus experiences the feelings of 'I don't want to do this' and 'I trust you anyway'. Jesus FELT IT ALL, giving His children comfort in knowing that He has walked before them and can handle whatever 'Complicated Gray' we face.
Matthew 26: 39, 42 (The Voice):
Jesus: Father, this is the last thing I want. If there is any way, please take this bitter cup from Me. Not My will, but Yours be done.
Jesus: Father, if there is no other way for this cup to pass without My drinking it—then not My will, but Yours be done.
The Permission of the And: https://youtu.be/9UjzHTjHEqg
The Voice: http://amzn.to/2EuLduh
The Passion of the Christ: http://amzn.to/2Cpahge